{"id":273,"date":"2006-07-20T20:12:53","date_gmt":"2006-07-21T03:12:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.andrewandlisa.org\/?p=273"},"modified":"2006-07-20T20:15:02","modified_gmt":"2006-07-21T03:15:02","slug":"angry-rant-keep-your-appointments","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.andrewandlisa.org\/?p=273","title":{"rendered":"[Angry Rant] Keep Your Appointments!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s 7:45 p.m., and I just got home from the studio.  No, I wasn&#8217;t working late.  I went to the studio to meet with a potential client (Julie) after she got off of work.  Lisa wasn&#8217;t happy that I went to the studio after hours, but she understands that I need every client I can get right now.<\/p>\n<p>When I got to the studio, I prepared for Julie&#8217;s arrival.  I set up a special slide show of senior guy photos (her son is the potential subject).  I turned on the television and prepared the slide show for presentation.  I ran the air conditioner.  I cleaned the table and chair we were to use for the meeting.  I made sure to get out a bottle of fresh, cold water for her and carefully centered it on a napkin.  I turned on some smooth, soothing music so she would feel comfortable when she walked into the studio.  I took notes from our previous phone conversation and started a special file for information about her son.  I prepared questions about her son, his personality, his interests, and his unique personhood.  Then I grabbed the latest issue of Photoshop Magazine and waited.  I&#8217;d look up every 30 seconds from the article I was reading (about how to implant baseball stiches onto a bald-headed guy).  But all I saw was condensation from Julie&#8217;s cold, unopened water dripping down past the napkin I&#8217;d laid out and re-soiling my clean glass table.  After waiting for 35 minutes (that&#8217;s 70 glances at her bottle of comfort-turned bottle of offense) I locked the studio and walked to Julie&#8217;s place of work.  She was gone.  She&#8217;d either forgotten me or blown off our meeting.  I was crushed.  When I walked back into the studio, the soft piano music had turned to a doleful swing number.  The combination of the music and my mood was dangerous.  I felt like chaining my camera around my neck (with a 70-200mm lens!) and jumping off the nearest bridge.<\/p>\n<p>My mood volatility has a little more behind it than just one missed appointment.  This happens probably 40% of the times I agree to meet with a potential client.  I carefully set up and eagerly await their arrival, thinking about little else than how well I&#8217;ll serve them.  Then they don&#8217;t show up, and I usually don&#8217;t even get the courtesy of a call to re-schedule or apologize.  I&#8217;m not a hard guy to get ahold of.  I get all of my e-mail on my cell phone, and promptly return calls and e-mails, <em>especially to potential clients.<\/em>  I give out my business card wantonly, spreading it like kids on a playgroud spread germs.<\/p>\n<p>When you agree to meet with someone, keep your word.  I lose so much respect for people when they show themselves unreliable or discourteous.<\/p>\n<p>[Rant over]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s 7:45 p.m., and I just got home from the studio. No, I wasn&#8217;t working late. I went to the studio to meet with a potential client (Julie) after she got off of work. Lisa wasn&#8217;t happy that I went to the studio after hours, but she understands that I need every client I can &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.andrewandlisa.org\/?p=273\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">[Angry Rant] Keep Your Appointments!<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[12,18,9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-273","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-business","category-culture","category-thoughts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pdZlL-4p","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andrewandlisa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/273","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andrewandlisa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andrewandlisa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andrewandlisa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andrewandlisa.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=273"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.andrewandlisa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/273\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andrewandlisa.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=273"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andrewandlisa.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=273"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andrewandlisa.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=273"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}